For our first night there, we decided to meet up with all of my friends. my husband. My daughter always helped me with my son (9m) since he was born, he is my current. I was confused, and I asked her very nicely to move her car and she did. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. This is fake right? No one actually believes that a disabled woman is going to inconvenience herself by having to awkwardly get up without enough room, maneuver her crutches in the tiny aisle, and squeeze down the aisle to stand in line to use to small (non-accessible) airplane bathroom and repeat the process on the way back just to irritate one well. I still have kid siblings, so my parents are very busy. That is a good reason to not go. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I took away my mom's party-planning privileges. You're having some health issues so you can't go. AITA for leaving my baby shower early and "causing a scene"? WITH UPDATE & REACTION Dusty Thunder 15. Recent studies show that 1 in 10 fathers experience some form of post-partum depression or anxiety (high when there were birth or pregnancy complications), but hardly any acknowledgement of or treatment for it occurs. Something inside me collapsed and what happened next I admit that might have overreacted. But right now you need to focus on yourself and your baby. She has had 1 seizure before (relevant later in the story). NTA - It seems like you both have the same view on each other. He wont let me touch a door and asked me to just stand and stare at the door and wait until he opens it. As horrible as it is, he’s done you a favor by showing you what he’s going to be like as a grandfather early. Then that’s when I noticed she was there with her boyfriend and their baby so thought it was better to keep my distance. AITA: Told a coworker to leave me alone. Animals and Pets Cars and Motor Vehicles Crafts and DIY Culture, Race, and Ethnicity Ethics and Philosophy Food and Drink Podcasts and Streamers Reading, Writing, and Literature Religion and Spirituality. May 12, 2022 · 22. This caused my friend to leave the shower. The sister was not involved in the conversation at all, and did not need to be told about it. But they will soon realize that you may have been right. I was at a cafe nearby because I knew she wouldn’t stay long. My little sister is graciously hosting at her place. My son is also my parents first grandchild. My mom is one of 5 girls so my brothers were the first boys in the family. Turns out her baby was premature. The OP and his wife Emma are expecting their first baby together. Sending a gift anyway is very generous. If he had done his separate present buying, he could have bought his biological daughter something wonderful. May 12, 2022 · 22. I had my son about a month ago. Baby shower for first baby is being thrown by MIL and (somewhat) my mother in Dec. My wife and I have had few issues with my brother - over his actions at our wedding and speech at our reception. So for the day before the wedding, I had suggested to B that she join us (mine and fiancé's family) for lunch and then help me to prepare for my wedding day. Last week my manager and another coworker sent an invite to e-transfer donations to an office baby shower people are hosting and a potluck. So I'm 30F and 6 months pregnant. As horrible as it is, he’s done you a favor by showing you what he’s going to be like as a grandfather early. In this video, I. A few of them had arrived an hour early to set up decorations and I really liked the little shower of attention when I had arrived and people. Upon arrival, the niece, we'll call her Kelly, was sitting at this weird toilet paper draped throne-like thing. YTA if you don’t attend your baby shower, as your friends and family are coming to see you. My mom slowly asked me to explain what being a nihilist means and I basically told my parents:. YTA. He got sicm around the time of my brother's wedding. In this video, I. Good on you both for instilling work ethic into your 19yo son. My friend Kate is a big weed smoker, I am not. Then whether she agrees or not, she's TA either way. Feb 15, 2022 at 10:10 PM. AITA for storming out of my baby shower after my boyfriend's family made me feel unwelcome? Throwaway account. The dude could have spent $500 on the baby shower and be out max $500, but would still have $2,000! He spent $2,500 and “recouped” $1,600, still out $900 with $0! God help his wife and their baby. He told me, "since you're not letting my own mother be in the room with you when you're giving birth, you have to invite her to this. I (24 F) usually leave my daughter (-1 F) (edit: meaning she’s less than a year old) with my mother (51 F) two days a week. So he went to the AITA (Am I The A**hole) subReddit for some perspective on how he handled it. My observation has been that often the emotional labour of holiday shopping, particularly for children, is treated as. The other day my in laws came over to stay the night to celebrate my husband’s birthday, and a couple hours after they left, I noticed the chair was gone. Mom didn't throw a tantrum, I can understand being stressed in the situation but screaming at a baby instead of getting up and trying to redirect or distract the child with something else isn't nbd. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1 - Deciding not to go to a friend's baby shower 2 - I would be the asshole for not supporting a friend. She says she is going to plan an extravagant baby shower which was probably a relief to you and your mother. A little back story, as. Almost always, his stepmom invites her neighbors, family, friends, everyone to all of the events. COPYRIGHT NOTICE: Things posted on this page are for use on Two Hot Takes podcast and accounts. For our first night there, we decided to meet up with all of my friends. They live together out of state from us, so we only see them a couple times a year. But right now you need to focus on yourself and your baby. So I'm 30F and 6 months pregnant. When my ex moved back to Europe my daughter (19F) was heartbroken. it usually would mean normal swimming time- aka the afternoon or evening- come over. I am no contact with my parents but I still have some things from my childhood. If people are going to be overbearing, then they don’t have to be there. You don't want to expose your SIL. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1. I said no, that is too late and told her my concerns. I love them both very much. The other day my in laws came over to stay the night to celebrate my husband’s birthday, and a couple hours after they left, I noticed the chair was gone. No, his whole family and him can kick rocks. AITA for backing out on daughters school trip because disabled sons play is this same day? by AdeptFox3466 in AmItheAsshole. 2-It could have been uncalled for to just leave instead of trying to. My son has know since he was 15 that he will take a gap year before going to college, both me and my wife didn’t really care as long as he does go to college, we just told him that in that year, he will have to have a job, we won’t make him pay rent or anything like that but he will have some basic chores to do that he won’t get money for. I (25F) moved in 2020 to another country, and not long after my friend (25F) of 10 years got engaged. Who gives a single fuck about his delicate sensibilities. Yes, she still thinks she might be in the wrong for "overreacting" to her husband and her in-laws' behavior. On the one hand, people put a lot of time and effort into planning this event. I had told her I was still happy to go to this baby shower and that I would be at her house around 1:30pm to go to it with her. You see, the woman’s mother-in-law has always made snide comments about. You can choose to have whoever you like in your life and in your baby’s life. While I had a chat with my brother to discuss. They had put in a lot of work with the decorations and food. They planned to spend the afternoon together. So background : I (21f) and 7 months pregnant. My mother decided she was throwing us a baby shower when I announced at 13weeks. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I don't want drinking at my baby shower, but my boyfriend feels like that is controlling to. For safety reasons, they should listen to you and your "rules. Every baby should be celebrated regardless of gender. We had this conversation several times, I said no each time. The final verdict is: Not the A-hole. Backstory is, when I found I was pregnant my ex, call him S (32M) took it really hard but after a lot of talking we agreed to proceed with the pregnancy. practice, they needed to shower twice a day. When a soon-to-be mom and her husband were getting ready to celebrate the birth of their first child, natural they had a baby shower first. He asked me what our schedule looked like for several weekends in the future because he wanted to have a get together with friends. and weekend. AITA: Told a coworker to leave me alone. She asked my husband (mid-30s M) for our availability. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. My step dad and another older gentlemen from his side of the family gave the fiancée $100 cash each, both in a letter addressed to the child. I have nothing against either my sister or my niece just I know with my schedule and my condition i am uncapable of caring for a child. My mother. That’s why I’m a nihilist. My family owns some cabins on a lake that we go to during the summer, some family members also use them to hunt during the fall. He's also foreign so I wanted to be friendly considering I was new to this town two years ago and. Have your friend as your support during your pregnancy. This was around the time my dad got his new girlfriend (we will call her Stephanie). The whole side of my inlaws are invited. She said Allison was dressed innapropriately. My mom is one of 5 girls so my brothers were the first boys in the family. Marissa and her mother Annie, my sister-in-law, basically grabbed. So he went to the AITA (Am I The A**hole) subReddit for some perspective on how he handled it. AITA for leaving my baby shower early and "causing a scene"? UPDATE AT THE BOTTOM TA account My (32F) husband of 7 years (32M) and I are pregnant. The three girls share a bathroom/shower. My Bsf/BF has been amazing so far. Come a month later, my baby got delivered 5 weeks early because I had preeclampsia and she was under 5lbs. My in-laws would be the perfect solution but I am terrified to leave my baby with my MIL for more than a handful of hours. All my grandparents were happy there wouldn't be another baby boy peeing on them doing diapers. My fiancé and I had to send a lot of money getting premie stuff, we also decided that since I only had 8 weeks of unpaid maternity leave that I wouldn’t be going back to work, as our daughter was premature and the cost of childcare around where we. OP you are NTA but you would be if you subject your daughter to the atmosphere your inlaws and husband are. Her child arrived before the baby shower, and she didn’t want to leave the NICU to attend a shower. AITA for leaving my own "baby shower"? My husband (38M) and I (36F) are finally expecting a child together after years of trying, and we're both super excited. My parents are hosting both events. She got really mad and said it’s not up to her and she’s not a team player ( whatever that even means) and got upset. So I just wanted to explain some of the misunderstanding. I tried it once and got really sick and have. Mix the right ratio of water to powder per your formula can instructions, my formula was 2 ounce of water per 1 level scoop of. While we are gathering our supplies, we thought it was a good time to start giving out the invitations for those who we wish to have at the baby shower. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. He found me on Facebook and we had been talking for. YTA. Taking a breather when you’re overwhelmed with babies is recommended. TLDR: My sister, her partner, and Stepmother want to have my sister's 40th bday (3 weeks in advance) on the same day as our baby shower. 116 votes, 32 comments. My parents are hosting both events. Important note: The party is only ruined if the person the party is thrown for has a bad time. You should be grateful that you get a baby shower at all". TLDR: My sister, her partner, and Stepmother want to have my sister's 40th bday (3 weeks in advance) on the same day as our baby shower. We have one previous child, Anne (6F, fake name) who has. I had my son about a month ago. Some background info: My mom (f61) was not a very supportive parent when I was growing up. 0:00 Intro 0:06 Costs 4:00 Comment 5:23 Leaving early 8:11 Off the clock 10:35 Death in the family 12:01 Comment story 12:38 Yes chef 14:34 Overtime. AITA for refusing to visit and have my wife attend my daughters baby shower? I (m71) and wife (Karen, f78) leave for FL in. There’s bad games, corny decorations, and a bunch of people hoping to go to an actual party. My son has know since he was 15 that he will take a gap year before going to college, both me and my wife didn’t really care as long as he does go to college, we just told him that in that year, he will have to have a job, we won’t make him pay rent or anything like that but he will have some basic chores to do that he won’t get money for. Turns out her baby was premature. You can be having a perfectly normal pregnancy and suddenly it takes a turn. I understand that you love her and want her to be in your life. We have one previous child, Anne (6F, fake name) who has. AITA for backing out on daughters school trip because disabled sons play is this same day? by AdeptFox3466 in AmItheAsshole. My son "Jordan" is 27. She asked if I’d be okay with waiting until then so my cousin would be able to go. The only time I had a moment was when I was a bridesmaid for a friend and relaxed her younger brother had a serious glow up and was like. AITA for leaving my baby shower early and "causing a scene"? UPDATE AT THE BOTTOM TA account My (32F) husband of 7 years (32M) and I are pregnant. AITA for leaving my son’s wedding early? My son, Alan (26M) has just recently gotten married to Helen (25-26F). Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. When Jen had her first kid my husband purchased a fairly expensive item off of her baby shower registry as a gift (around $200-$300 if I recall correctly). AITA for leaving my baby shower early and “causing a scene?” r/AmITheAngel • “My 20y/o daughter lost her job to covid when she was 17 and now she hid an entire pregnancy from me until she gave birth. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. AITA I don’t want my bf parents at baby shower. A lot of the time service charges don't even go to the staff. This was around the time my dad got his new girlfriend (we will call her Stephanie). She didn’t say the kid was left outside all day. It ran long — and when she returned, she found her husband there, furious. 2K · 3. To each their own. Taking a breather when you’re overwhelmed with babies is recommended. In a baby shower that I was paying for and planning, I was being excluded from my own wife's event in my own home. The baby is 3 months old not 3 days, you were away for only 7hrs and she was not alone. curious_purr • 3 mo. Well anyway my mom, Susie’s best friend and I where planning Susie’s baby shower and we called Kallie to ask if she wanted to help. When sending invites to my baby shower, I told my husband I didn't want my MIL there. We have one previous child, Anne (6F, fake name) who has epilepsy. Although it was hard on my and my husband, we managed to get through it as we had each other. AITA for storming out of my baby shower after my boyfriend's family made me feel unwelcome? Throwaway account. AITA for backing out on daughters school trip because disabled sons play is this same day? by AdeptFox3466 in AmItheAsshole. Then that’s when I noticed she was there with her boyfriend and their baby so thought it was better to keep my distance. Appeasing your boyfriend and sleeping with a stuffed toy are two separate issues. My baby shower is in April just 3 weeks before my due date, my aunt is planning it. The other day my in laws came over to stay the night to celebrate my husband’s birthday, and a couple hours after they left, I noticed the chair was gone. To be honest, my MIL is horrible. It's almost like you mom and step-dad are trying to foster a relationship with you guys now but it's just too little too late. I'm seven months along. Your daughter's safety comes first, and leaving her overnight with an addict who's unable to wake up should she needs something is just not an option. well we found out this morning over the phone that we were having a little girl. Never, ever focus on the people who cannot or will not come to an event you’re hosting. The OP explains that he. My observation has been that often the emotional labour of holiday shopping, particularly for children, is treated as "women's work" within a straight couple. Marissa and her mother Annie, my sister-in-law, basically grabbed. But I don’t want to disappointed the same way I was on my 16th birthday. My ex stepmother ended up backing out at the last second due to her own personal problems at the time, and she convinced me to invite my parents. She wrote: "AITA for telling my coworker to leave me alone after my baby shower?" I (F31) am 32 weeks pregnant with mine and my husband's first child. And, more often than. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I asked my best friend not to invite my SIL Meg to my baby shower. She wrote: "AITA for telling my coworker to leave me alone after my baby shower?" I (F31) am 32 weeks pregnant with mine and my husband's first child. He’s the middle child of 5 kids. AITA for telling my best friend I’m not bringing my daughter to her house anymore. She did not know many other people, and she brought him because she might be “lonely. Yeah I'm honestly kinda surprised after I read the post. I may be the asshole because they put a lot of time into the event and me leaving was rude. To sterilize the formula, you heat the water up to a certain temp (about 160 f I believe) then let it cool for about 5 minutes. You should be grateful that you get a baby shower at all". All my grandparents were happy there wouldn't be another baby boy peeing on them doing diapers. Now my MIL is on my ass for treating my middle daughter unfairly and for being cheap. You need to prioritize your own needs over helping your family. I'm seven months along. practice, they needed to shower twice a day. aita husband mad at me. Let me start with some backstory. I got pregnant after my antipsychotics canceled out my birth control; it took months of therapy for me to realize the blame isn’t on my son and I’m somewhat happier. My mom is one of 5 girls so my brothers were the first boys in the family. Thank you for fighting for Jayden/Jooneh, and I am hoping you win full custody of all of your children. My in laws are aware. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I want to clarify I don’t want to invite my siblings, not, I don’t want them at my baby shower. As horrible as it is, he’s done you a favor by showing you what he’s going to be like as a grandfather early. When my ex moved back to Europe my daughter (19F) was heartbroken. She had her chance at a baby shower experience when she had OP (and any other siblings OP may have). About 40 minutes in, she calls me and asks me to come. I was approached by a new employee at my company. When my ex moved back to Europe my daughter (19F) was heartbroken. My parents still do Santa. From Redditor u/MB025: A few days ago, I came home from work and saw my neighbor’s (“Lindsay”) car on my drive way. It's simply easier for us to travel there, have the shower and then leave the next day. Some background info: My mom (f61) was not a very supportive parent when I was growing up. I was at a cafe nearby because I knew she wouldn’t stay long. My SIL decided to throw me a baby shower after my DH denied when my sister offered to throw me one. My wedding wasn't important to me, the only important thing I cared about was my friends and family having a good time and getting to have my bridesmaids and groomsmen participate in the ceremony. To be honest, my MIL is horrible. And that they should go, have fun, do their thing. 2K · 3. AITA? Tried to finish baby shower invite envelopes without husband. For leaving the family Xmas party early. AITA for leaving my baby shower early and "causing a scene"? Original Post TA account. The aunt having a bad time tormenting a 16 year old has no impact on if it was a successful shower. He called her an. They have the monitor and they’re fine. Focus your energy on the people who are there, appreciate the effort they made to celebrate you, and enjoy your shower. passionate anal, ourhome2
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AITA for leaving my son's wedding after he denied his stepmom a mother-son dance. If people are going to be overbearing, then they don’t have to be there. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I understand I may be TA for leaving a guest downstairs on their own and that it is conventionally bad manners to do so. Participating in such a thing is voluntary, and usually not expected from a college student. It's your wedding surround yourself with those that respect you, not ones that don't. Basic Company Financials 06. ago •. Important part of this story, I have autism. He's also foreign so I wanted to be friendly considering I was new to this town two years ago and. She has a really good relationship with his wife (stepmom) and I absolutely despise her. Ever since we announced that I was pregnant they have been rude. I should say; I wasn't particularly. 1K subscribers Subscribe 1 No views 1 minute ago Mother-in-Law Drama Dusty. She didn’t say the kid was left outside all day. Never heard that before in my life. Then, his SIL dropped another bomb on us. by Glittering_Trifle571. This caused my friend to leave the shower. His mom had passed away when he was 13. A little back story, as explained in this viral Reddit post, will tell you exactly why the woman left her own baby shower. He found me on Facebook and we had been talking for. Baby brothers arent allowed to be hot. When i told my family the terrible news, my sister in law. She has. I sent an invite to brother obviously. My parents are hosting both events. The sister left him in the entryway, which is. For leaving the family Xmas party early. AITA for telling my best friend I’m not bringing my daughter to her house anymore. It's not supposed to be the grandmother's experience. Baby shower for first baby is being thrown by MIL and (somewhat) my mother in Dec. So for the day before the wedding, I had suggested to B that she join us (mine and fiancé's family) for lunch and then help me to prepare for my wedding day. Whenever I'd update her on the baby's growth, she's text back "sounds good", if she even responded at all. The day after that, my husband came home from work before I did, and he saw Lindsay’s car on our. November 03, 2023 | by carisadev. And even if somehow a whole neighborhood egnored this for 4 whole hours, the kid would be in a lot worse condition than just a full diaper. I got pregnant after my antipsychotics canceled out my birth control; it took months of therapy for me to realize the blame isn’t on my son and I’m somewhat happier. For the most part they behaved, don’t know if they were completely sober at the time but my aunt and brother kept an eye on them. AITA for leaving my baby shower early and “causing a scene?”. Every baby should be celebrated regardless of gender. I could be the asshole because I don’t think my SIL would be okay with me bringing my daughter her own gift. So for the day before the wedding, I had suggested to B that she join us (mine and fiancé's family) for lunch and then help me to prepare for my wedding day. My baby shower is in April just 3 weeks before my due date, my aunt is planning it. You are not the asshole for not cooking. Me and my fiancé announced to my brother and his wife as well as our friends (2 couples, together with my brother and sil we're a friendsgroup but tbh my brother and sil just happend to be always around) that we're going to get married in a civil ceremony next month (because of some paper issues it happend last minute). Who gives a single fuck about his delicate sensibilities. When my ex moved back to Europe my daughter (19F) was heartbroken. I could be the asshole because I don’t think my SIL would be okay with me bringing my daughter her own gift. I not sure what the law says about this exactly. The Original Poster (OP), who goes by coleeatspeas on the site, asked: “AITA for kicking. A lot of the time service charges don't even go to the staff. My aunt lives in one state, my sister and I in another, and the cousin in yet another. Don’t cater to others. Mind you my boyfriend did tell his parents over text because of their relationship. I (26f) have a two year old daughter. I was approached by a new employee at my company. AITA for walking out of my baby shower? D DRW May 12, 2022 at 6:30 PM This one is a doozy! This is NOT me! The situation is kind of a mess. NTA. That's where everyone stays in their car and drop off their gifts on a table or something outside the soon-to-be-mommy's home. Second, my son was. My wife got sick yesterday and I took care of our 2 and 4 year old. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. My baby was born first. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: For going home early to pump and 2. I am no contact with my parents but I still have some things from my childhood. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Bc I won’t make them a new blanket and also won’t buy them anything off their registry partially due to my finances, them giving back my original. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Things happen. We happen to share the same birthday, and our wedding is the day after. Mix the right ratio of water to powder per your formula can instructions, my formula was 2 ounce of water per 1 level scoop of. If people are going to be overbearing, then they don’t have to be there. November 03, 2023 | by carisadev. I understand that you love her and want her to be in your life. Maybe every teenager doesn't need a couple showers a day, but giving OP's explanation of 'Sam' being very active, makes sense that she needs to shower more than once. AITA for leaving my baby shower early and "causing a scene"? WITH UPDATE & REACTION Dusty Thunder 15. Turns out her baby was premature. Their Got Their Neighbor's Car Towed. He doesn’t let me take my own shoes off after. At the baby shower, I was telling everyone how our baby was once again a girl. Contest mode is 1. First, my baby shower went off without a hitch. You were the babysitter, thus you were in charge of both your cousin and sister. Always wash hands before touching the baby. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. This caused my friend to leave the shower. My mom is one of 5 girls so my brothers were the first boys in the family. AITA: Told a coworker to leave me alone. Important part of this story, I have autism. I tried it once and got really sick and have. So AITA For quitting my job when It makes me feel horrible. AITA FOR WALKING OUT OF MY OWN BABY SHOWER. To start: about two weeks after my post on AITA, Avery stabbed me. Always critical of others efforts to throw parties because she is the always upset how others plan things. Sending a gift anyway is very generous. Help keep the sub engaging!. If she can’t accept that, offer to throw her a shower for her 5 year old a different day so they can be the center of attention, and let her know she should take a pass on attending yours since she is confused about the intent. When sending invites to my baby shower, I told my husband I didn't want my MIL there. UPDATE - AITA for leaving my baby shower early and “causing a scene”? This is smart. He's also foreign so I wanted to be friendly considering I was new to this town two years ago and. AITA: Told a coworker to leave me alone. I not sure what the law says about this exactly. My grandmother took me to get my ears pierced when I was 17 behind my mom’s back because she’s got control issues and wouldn’t let me get them done. background - i (27,F) was 13 weeks pregnant when i sadly miscarried, this broke me and my husbands heart as we had been trying for a while. My brother(28) and his girlfriend(26) have been together 5 years. Nov 8, 2022 · AITA for leaving my baby shower early and "causing a scene"? Like Comment Share 3. At this point, I’m not even gonna vote, but I’m just gonna say that you shouldn’t be surprised if your daughter goes NC with you. For the most part they behaved, don’t know if they were completely sober at the time but my aunt and brother kept an eye on them. Help keep the sub engaging!. He wont let me touch a door and asked me to just stand and stare at the door and wait until he opens it. So me (26f) and my husband (27m) got engaged a year ago (Nov 7). I am no contact with my parents but I still have some things from my childhood. Your daughter's safety comes first, and leaving her overnight with an addict who's unable to wake up should she needs something is just not an option. We disagree on many baby related things, most of which I back up with science. It was surprising to us all because she wasn’t supposed to go into labor for another month. curious_purr • 3 mo. Jul 18, 2023 at 7:32 PM. . www 91porn